Live your Life and no another's

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Get out of the local niche


My dad gave me this piece of advice while growing up and it has helped  me thus far; he said, " Never pretend to be who you are not because you do not know who might want to help". If you are around folks that do not accept you for who you are then just turn your back and walk head straight up. Do not try to bend to their rules because that implies you are living another person's life at the detriment of yours.
You deserve to be celebrated and it is only those that value your real self that can celebrate you truly.

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