Get it Right
*On relationship matters today*
That he/ she helped you when you were in need, weak, depressed does not make him/ her husband/wife.
Listen there is nothing like husband or wife material, there is only a husband/wife. You don't go about measuring the good qualities;godliness, character, beauty etc as yardstick for getting an help meet for you. If he/she will really be "an help meet for you" then it has to come from the Lord. Don't just jump into relationship with any and every good guy/lady that comes your way.
For the fact that it is good, does not mean it comes from God or that's His perfect will for you. See, when God saw the need for an help meet for man, He bought all the living creatures before him to see what he would call them. Adam could have called one of the creature wife/help after all, all what God created is/was good, but the bible recorded there was not found an help meet for him and that was when God caused a deep sleep to fall upon him and He took one of his ribs to make the woman.
Listen carefully, if he/she was brought your way when you needed a support, comfort or at the point when you have reached "marriageable age" does not mean you have to get into a relationship with him/her. That's how many have got wrong the purpose for which a guy/lady was brought into their life at a certain season.
So, God brought him/her at a certain season to see what you will call him/her and in your pride and foolishness of heart, you refuse to sought for wisdom to know the purpose of such person.
Someone he bought your way, thinking you will call a disciple, mentee, mentor, brother, sister, a colleague, you have called a "boyfriend/girlfriend".
The living creatures were brought to Adam that he should give them their identity and with/by the wisdom of God in him, he was able to give each and every their true identity.
But, here you are wallowing in your foolishness and pride, giving every guy/lady brought your way the identity of a "lover."
Break out of the foolishness today. If you are in a relationship you are not led into nor does your mentor know about it, you better break out of it today.
If he/she controls you and has taken the place of God in your life, check it.
If he/she hasn't added value or motivate you to do likewise in the past 3months, you better check it.
You go visiting and he/she makes advances at you but you manage to resist all the time and you never told your mentor about it nor break out of the relationship. I hope when he rapes you or she finally lures you into bed, you won't claim it is the devil's work and come crying to the Holy Spirit and your mentor that you have cut out of the relationship.
That he/ she helped you when you were in need, weak, depressed does not make him/ her husband/wife.
Listen there is nothing like husband or wife material, there is only a husband/wife. You don't go about measuring the good qualities;godliness, character, beauty etc as yardstick for getting an help meet for you. If he/she will really be "an help meet for you" then it has to come from the Lord. Don't just jump into relationship with any and every good guy/lady that comes your way.
For the fact that it is good, does not mean it comes from God or that's His perfect will for you. See, when God saw the need for an help meet for man, He bought all the living creatures before him to see what he would call them. Adam could have called one of the creature wife/help after all, all what God created is/was good, but the bible recorded there was not found an help meet for him and that was when God caused a deep sleep to fall upon him and He took one of his ribs to make the woman.
Listen carefully, if he/she was brought your way when you needed a support, comfort or at the point when you have reached "marriageable age" does not mean you have to get into a relationship with him/her. That's how many have got wrong the purpose for which a guy/lady was brought into their life at a certain season.
So, God brought him/her at a certain season to see what you will call him/her and in your pride and foolishness of heart, you refuse to sought for wisdom to know the purpose of such person.
Someone he bought your way, thinking you will call a disciple, mentee, mentor, brother, sister, a colleague, you have called a "boyfriend/girlfriend".
The living creatures were brought to Adam that he should give them their identity and with/by the wisdom of God in him, he was able to give each and every their true identity.
But, here you are wallowing in your foolishness and pride, giving every guy/lady brought your way the identity of a "lover."
Break out of the foolishness today. If you are in a relationship you are not led into nor does your mentor know about it, you better break out of it today.
If he/she controls you and has taken the place of God in your life, check it.
If he/she hasn't added value or motivate you to do likewise in the past 3months, you better check it.
You go visiting and he/she makes advances at you but you manage to resist all the time and you never told your mentor about it nor break out of the relationship. I hope when he rapes you or she finally lures you into bed, you won't claim it is the devil's work and come crying to the Holy Spirit and your mentor that you have cut out of the relationship.
- *Get it right*
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